Life is about Living in the Gap
Have you ever had a goal you set and were trying to reach? Do you set goals for yourself in areas of career, family, finances and maybe health? Are you working towards organizing the house, paying off debt or saving for that new car?
For most women I know, goal setting is a part of life. Whether many of you physically focus on setting goals or not, you probably do it without knowing. Making plans for vacation, getting your retirement portfolio developed, working towards a new healthy weight; all of these are goals in progress.
As a coach, a big part of the support I offer my clients is helping them become clear on their goal, and then developing a plan of action to reach it.
Personally, I have many goals and dreams, some written, some in my heart. I believe goals are what gives us hope and motivates us into action.
The thing I see with many, however, is that they are so focused on reaching that goal; they miss out on the ride along the way. As a society there is so much emphasis on the DOING, we forget about the BEING. We think that when we accomplish a set goal, then we will be happier, more satisfied and oh so successful. Our belief is that when we get there then we can BE.
What many of us haven’t figured out yet is that life is all about living while in the process of reaching goals. Life is about living in the gap-from where you are now and where you want to go. We never only have one goal and then when we reach it think, “Wow, I’ve made it, now I can start living and be satisfied being here for the rest of my life.”
What gets us so stuck at times is that we think we will be happier when we reach this goal or that goal. We forget that when we reach this or that goal, we come up with a new goal. So, if our happiness and satisfaction rested on us reaching each goal, we would never be happy because it is our nature to constantly have new desires for our selves!!!
Humans evolve and change. We seek growth and are constantly expressing hopes, dreams and goals. Life is all about change and creation. Our job is to BE in the flow of life while we DO.
So, if you are waiting until you lose that 20 pounds or get that job, or have a more organized house, before you can to BE happy, successful, satisfied, appreciative, I suggest you get into the feeling of Being that NOW!
Find ways to add more joy to your daily life. Look at the things you love to do and start making them more a part of your life. Take time to stop and smell the roses. Appreciate your partner, your co-worker or pet your animals. Deep breathe and relish in the beauty of nature. Look for the best in situations and take time for you. Be more present with people and activities as you go about your day. Seek ways to connect with others and give of yourself when it feels good to do so.
Remember, life is about living in the gap so keep focused on your goals while having a heck of a good time in that gap!!!
Article written by Peggy Porter-The Success Coach for Mom Entrepreneurs
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Peggy Porter is a coach, author and speaker. Peggy is known as The Success Coach for Mom Entrepreneurs and helps them plan, prioritize and be more productive so they can make more money in their business, spend more quality time with family and bring more energy and less stress to their own lives. In her fr*ee report The 3 Essential Keys to Mom Entrepreneur Success found at www.peggyporter.com , Peggy shows Mom Entrepreneurs what is needed to have a successful family and successful business, at the same time!
